This piece had a little bit of a 'uneducated and uncivilized' trope-y feel to it but I'm going to assume the best. Sometimes it's difficult shedding my 'need to view everything through a woke leftist' lens, so forgive me.
Anyway, I see your point. I've quit correcting people. I've quit spreading my legs and 'splaining' everything. I'm tired of needing to have an opinion on everything. That's just a way to vet people into seeing which tribe you belong to, basically.